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Mary-Lou
03-16-2008, 11:35 AM
Most Americans of a certain age must have heard of "The Boston Irish". I am a proud descendant of Irish Immagrants who came to America in the 1800's.
My Maternal Grandmother came from Carigtul, County Cork, Ireland, during the Great Famine, when the potato crop failed for three years in a row. She went to Liverpool, said she was 17 years old so that she could travel alone, and sailed to Boston, Massachusetts. The fare was $70.00 on what were called "Coffin Ships", because the nightmare voyage took six weeks in steerage. Conditions were so bad with moldy food, scarce water and overcrowding, that many of the older and weker passangers died and were disposed of at sea.
When she landed in Boston in 1849, my Grandmother was 14 years old. Boston, at that time, was ruled by very rich Protestants known as "The Boston Brahmans", who owned five-story brownstome homesalong Beacons Street and Commonwealth Avenue. The would send their Butlers down to the docks to meet the "Coffin Ships" and hire the young Irish girls to work in these mansions. The girls were treated like slaves. They slept up on the fifth floor, where there was no heat, and hardly a breath of air in the summertime. Wake up call was at five am, when the maid had to rise and get the fire going for the cook to prepare breakfast for the Master and Mistress. Trays had to be brought to everyone in the household. Then the days work began, scrubbingall those stairways, cleaning, and polishing, doing all kinds of heavy chores, until 10:00 or 11:00 at night, for $2.50 a week, seven days a week. These girls got two hours off on Thursday afternoon and one hour off on Sunday morning for a 5:30 AM Mass, as they were all Roman Catholics.
Somehow she saved enough money to send for her sister Bessie, who also went to work for another rich Boston Brahman family. Together, they saved enough to bring sister nellie over. Later, the three of them sent for their father and brother.
My Grandmother, Mary, when she was older, married another Irish Immagrant, Dan Daily, who faught in the Ninth Massachusetts Infantry Regiment in the Civil War. He was wounded at Manasses and recovered, but stayed in the national Guard and helped fight the Great Boston Fire in 1872. Mary had six children with him. When he died in 1888, she only had one child left. The others had all died from childhood illnesses.
She later married for a second time in 1890, and my mother was the only child of this second marriage. She was widowed again when my mother was 17 years old. She had a hard life which came to a terrible end when she was hit by a car in 1923 right in front of my mother who was holding in hand my 3 year old sister Mary and my 2 year old brother Bill.
More to come about my Irish Heritage!
Posted: 3/16/2008 at 12:14

candles
03-16-2008, 11:40 AM
Mary, I find this too hard to read, the green you picked is too light.

Mary-Lou
03-16-2008, 11:43 AM
Better? Sorry about that! :)

candles
03-16-2008, 11:46 AM
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schillerbjr
03-16-2008, 01:37 PM
Great column, MARY-LOU!!

KatyJ
03-16-2008, 05:47 PM
Thank you for sharing Mary Lou. :twothumbsup:

Amawalk John
03-16-2008, 07:21 PM
You're the best, Mary Lou.

I hope you can find some properly prepared corned beef and cabbage tomorrow.

Mary-Lou
03-16-2008, 07:33 PM
My Dad's side is MicMac Indian.

And I've been told I'm a wee bit whacky.

Does that make me a "MicMac Paddy Whack?"

I'd LOVE some Corned Beef and cabbage. They don't know what that IS in South Florida.

EdieJ
03-19-2008, 09:40 AM
Mary-Lou, do you remember seeing pictures (I think it might have been in "Life" magazine many years ago) of Irish, fresh off the boat, dazed, confused and bone-weary, walking down streets where signs were in every window "Irish need not apply"? So heartbreaking. So prejudice does NOT begin and end with skin color...

George D. Aiken, a former US Senator (1892-1984) once remarked, "If we were to wake up some morning and find that everyone was the same race, creed and color, we would find some other cause for prejudice by noon." Sad but true.

Thank you for sharing your stories with us, I always enjoy reading them! :)

Edie

Mary-Lou
03-19-2008, 10:07 AM
You got That right!

Anyway, here's the next installment!

Mom's Irish Heritage-Part Two:

I never heard much about my paternal grandfather, Patrick Molloy, other than the fact that he emmigrated from Galway to New York City and became an American Citizen in 1872. I have his Certificate of Citizenship to this day. He died in 1892 of pneumonia leaving a widow and three small children, two girls and a boy. That boy, aged four at the time, was my father. Because the widow (my paternal grandmother) had a brother who was a policeman in Boston MA, she came from new York to settle there. She rented a store with three rooms above it, and raised her children and ran the store alone. She opened at 5:30AM and stayed open till 10:00PM six days a week. Since there was no help and no baby-sitter, she kept the children in the store with her.

In those days most of the food and drink came in huge kegs and barrels. Once, when he was about five years old, my father fell head first into the pickle barrel. They fished him out and continued to sell the pickles! After all, what germs could possibly live in that brine?

However, milk was also sold from those big barrels. people brought in their own containers and dipped them in the communal barrel and fiulled them with the milk. The milk was later found to be a major cause of consumption (later known as tuberculosis) which wiped out entire families. This brought about Pasterization and the bottling of milk.

My father was an altar boy at St. Monica's, his parish church. He only went to school through the eighth grade, but read constantly and remembered everything he read. He was very proud to be "Boston Irish", and was very involved in politics, campaigning for James Michael Curley and F.D.R. He was an ardent fan of the Boston Red Sox and did see them win the World Series in 1918. He loved to recite narrative poems like "Casey At The Bat" and "Dangerous Dan McGrew". He could Quote Shakespeare and liked musical theater, and was very proud that he had seen george M. Cohan and Lillian Russell in person.

He died on January 22, 1973 at the age of 83.

Mary-Lou's note: Although Grampy was a life-long Democrat, he would NOT recognize the dems today, because he LOVED America and would do ANYTHING for his country!

RW
03-19-2008, 10:18 AM
Memories for me, too, ML.

My mother was born in Ireland, also from Galway, Ballinaslough.

My older daughter has moved to Seattle for a bit, and on St. Patrick's Day, I wrote her a brief history of my mother's side of the family...she enjoyed it, forgot that she was Irish since the Old Goat makes so much of knowing his family came over on the boat in 1735, as Mennonites, on the Smiling Nancy. Apparently, that bunch don't laff much, especially him!

Mary-Lou
03-19-2008, 10:33 AM
The "Smiling Nancy" eh? Hmmmmmmm.

esmerelda
03-20-2008, 12:42 PM
Hi All,
I 'm new on here. I'm from Waterford in Ireland and Mary Lou I'm living less than an hour away from where your gran came from, Carrigtwohill in Co.Cork. My grandparents and some of their siblings went to Worcester, Mass way back at the end of 1800s and my late dad was born in Worcester but came back to Ireland to be reared by an aunt when he was young as his parents both died young. It was terrible back then the way the poor parents had to say goodbye to their children and possibly never saw them again. What a life it was.
esmerelda